Today’s word of the day is “change.”
Change is hard. It’s scary, and most people don’t like change. We like what is familiar, we like consistency, and change is the opposite of that. It’s unpredictable, which makes people uncomfortable.
Be Open-Minded
As difficult as change can be, it is also necessary. I am a firm believer in listening to the opinions of others, and listening with an open mind.
When you close your mind, you are closing yourself off to so many possibilities. That person who dared to take your seat in class could have been your next serious relationship. The person who disagreed with you on one topic could have been your future best friend. But now, because you have closed yourself off in anger, you have also closed the door on possibility.
Personal Change
Personal change is an ultimate challenge for most people, but I believe no one is perfect and everyone has something they want to or should change about themselves on a personal level. Sometimes it is as simple as how you phrase things. It’s not always what you say, but how you say it that can change the tone of an entire conversation or relationship.
Consider the phrase, “I love your new hair cut.” First, say it in a sweet, caring tone. Pretend you’re talking to an elderly grandmother, if that helps. It feels like a genuine compliment, right? Now say it while channeling your inner Regina George from Mean Girls. Think snobby, stuck-up thoughts filled with all the superiority you can muster.
That version doesn’t feel so great, does it?
You Don’t Have to Change Alone
Change doesn’t have to happen by yourself. Enlist a friend or loved one. Talk to a counselor. There is no shame in asking for help if you want to change your life, but you’re not sure where to start.
Don’t be afraid of change. You may find yourself with a much more fulfilling life than you can possibly imagine.
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